Mia Leighty
Erotic Energy Isn’t Dangerous,
It’s Sacred.
When we claim it as our own, life unfolds with beauty & power.
MY MISSION
My work is an invitation:
to feel everything,
to heal deeply,
and remind you that
your body is holy ground.
I help others claim their power.
My vision is a world where all
humans live free and authentically.
I’m, Mia Leighty
For over fifteen years, I’ve worked at the intersection of transformation, embodiment, healing, sex, and spirituality—supporting people through a trauma-informed journey of empowerment and integration. My work invites you to return to yourself through the body, where liberation begins.
I’m endlessly inspired by human resilience—the way we heal, grow, and rise again, even from the deepest wounds. As a certified Sex, Love & Relationship Coach, bodyworker, and yoga teacher, I’ve witnessed the radical transformation that happens when we treat the body as holy ground and pleasure as medicine.
I believe erotic energy is life energy—the creative pulse that fuels our relationships, our art, our justice work, and our freedom. When we reclaim this energy as sacred and sovereign, we become more alive, more authentic, and more powerful than we ever imagined.
My mission is to guide people home to the wisdom of their bodies, where healing, pleasure, and truth live. This is not about becoming someone new—it’s about remembering who you’ve always been.
I envision a world where all humans are free to live from the wholeness of their being—where pleasure, presence, and liberation are not privileges, but birthrights.
MY VALUES
PLEASURE
the medicine we need to weather life’s storms
LIBERATION
freedom & social emancipation for all
COURAGE
working boldly with all the parts of ourselves
SOULFULNESS
accepting of our feelings and emotions
ALCHEMY
turning pain & fear into wisdom and love
A little about how I got here…
My Origins
I’m a queer, recovering Catholic, and a survivor of sexual assault who’s spent decades turning pain into power, and shame into embodied wisdom. Raised in Tulsa, Oklahoma, in a devoted liberal Catholic family, I grew up with a strong sense of service and justice—but also inherited deep confusion about the body, desire, and worthiness.
After experiencing a rape as a teenager and surviving years of spiritual and emotional abuse in a doomsday bible cult, I searched relentlessly for healing—through therapy, yoga, dance, somatic work, and activism. There were moments when I nearly gave up. But slowly, through sacred circles, movement, theater, therapy and study, I began to rebuild a relationship with the divine on my own terms.
My healing journey took me from Oklahoma to Spain, Italy, Brazil, Thailand, Bali, and Los Angeles. Along the way I taught English, yoga, and trauma-informed embodiment practices; I worked in women’s shelters and did LGBTQ advocacy; I lived inside movements of resistance and awakening. Each chapter brought me closer to understanding that liberation is both personal and collective—and that the body is the bridge.
My Awakening
In 2005, I found Tantra and Taoism. My studies reconnected me to the sacredness of eros and the wisdom of the body. In 2015 I did a 200 hour Hatha yoga certification and added a 200 hour Kundalini yoga certification in 2019. In 2020 I was certified in the Universal Healing Tao at Tao Garden. In 2022, I became a certified Love, Sex & Relationship Coach (VITA™ Method) specializing in male sexuality and Tantric intimacy. These practices have taught me to transmute trauma into vitality, to reparent my younger selves, and to choose pleasure as a path to wholeness.
My Ongoing Integration
I have realized that erotic aliveness fuels all aspects of life — relationships, creativity, justice, and freedom. Today, I teach others how to do the same—to reclaim their radiance, aliveness, and erotic power.
All are welcome here.
As a queer, kink enthusiast, I am honored to walk beside you on your own path of liberation. My worldview sees gender and sexuality as a spectrum — wide, colorful, and full of mystery. Here, you are not asked to fit in. You are invited to expand. Your pleasure is sacred. Your desires are valid. Your body is holy ground.
I believe sexuality is diverse by design — not a deviation. We are not meant to fit into boxes someone else built. I believe most humans exist somewhere in the beautiful middle of sexuality — diverse in who we love, how we love, and what turns us on.
I believe shame dissolves when truth is spoken. You do not need to apologize for who you are. I believe everyone deserves a life where love doesn’t ask for self-betrayal. Your liberation is part of a revolution of love. And I’m proud to be here, alive with you.
My goal is to help you...
Claim your erotic power. Because when you do, you reclaim your aliveness — and the world becomes more vibrant because of it.
I believe that...
Erotic energy is sacred, sovereign, and the source of your freedom.
My bigger vision is...
Liberation for all. I believe that when you liberate your erotic life, you liberate your whole life and you build a world based on liberation for all.
I've been studying and teaching this work for over a decade.
I use trauma-informed coaching tools, modern psychology, and practices rooted in the body (soma) and spirit.
This holistic approach offers safe transformation and helps each person build an inner resource for exploration and connection.
I celebrate diversity and honor each individual's journey, creating a community where at the center of all we do together is collective liberation.
My work goes deep—it’s fierce and compassionate, intuitive and honest. I hold a brave, loving space for real transformation, asking the questions that get beneath the story. Together, we use breath, awareness, and movement to access your body’s wisdom and release what keeps you small.
This isn’t quick-fix coaching. It’s embodied, liberating work for those ready to come home to their bodies, their erotic energy, and their full aliveness.
My Signature Framework at a glance
Clear: Gain clarity on desires and challenges. Clear the path for new possibilities.
Cultivate: Learn to use the 5 Tantric Principles and foundational Taoist practices to activate erotic energy for healing, regulation, pleasure. Learn to complete emotional/stress cycles to free up stuck energy for more pleasure and joy.
Create: Improve relational skills, dream into fantasy, develop a pleasure practice, build a legacy
My Certifications & Trainings:
Associates of Science in Psychology (2009): Tulsa, OK
100 hours Yoga Education© certification (2010): RECESS Tulsa, OK
Bachelor of Arts in Multidisciplinary Studies (2012): Oklahoma State University.
200 hours Hatha Yoga Certification (2015): Everyone Yoga School, Tulsa, OK.
150 hours Thai Massage training (2016/2017): Spirit House Yoga, OKC, OK and Fine Art of Thai Massage, Chiang Mai, Thailand.
ITT NonViolent Communication 10 day Intensive (2017): Center for Non-Violent Communication. Bali, Indonesia
200 hours Kundalini Yoga Certification (2019): Celestial Yoga School and 3HO International, training at RAMA Institute in Venice, CA.
Level One Universal Healing Tao (2020): Under Loren Johnson, senior teacher at Tao Gardens, Mantak Chia in Palm Springs, CA.
Sex, Love & Relationship Coaching Certification (2022): 1-Year Intensive Coaching Training with Layla Martin and the VITA™ Coaching Method.
Your Sacred Paths To Liberation…
Vital Pleasures For Men
1:1 Coaching Exclusively For Those Who Identify As A Man
Ready to cultivate confidence and create deep intimacy? Our work together is based on your authentic desires and is customized to your goals, obstacles, and needs.
Vital Pleasure For Woman
1:1 Coaching Exclusively For Those Who Identify As A Women
Ready to release old dynamics that dampen your desires and weaken your confidence? This is a transformational journey reconnects you with yourself, your body, and your wildest desires.
LUSH Group Program
Group Program Exclusively
For Women
Ready to go from stressed out to turned on? Reconnect your sexual energy with your heart and reclaim your erotic power? This sacred six week online series will bring you into presence and pleasure.