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Claim Your Power

Deepen Your Pleasure

Get the Sex, Love, and Confidence You Want

You don’t need more sex.

You need to feel something.

You’ve had sex. Maybe lots of it. Maybe even paid for it.
You know how to perform. How to show up on the surface.

You might be carrying:

  • A sense of unworthiness you can’t shake

  • Fear that you’ll never really connect

  • Anxiety around being seen or not being “enough”

  • A constant search for something more — but not knowing what

  • A feeling that the man you could be is just out of reach

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Underneath all the sex…

A vast, calm ocean with deep blue water and gentle ripples.

One of my clients put it this way:

“During our sessions, I was able to experience what it felt like to be the person I always thought I could be. Mia helped show me that person… and helped me realize he was already within me.”

Learn to cultivate your erotic energy as fuel for life

Move through shame, numbness, or self-doubt

Connect sexual energy to self-love, confidence, and clarity

Get grounded in who you are — in bed, and in the world

Deepen your relationship with your body, emotions

This work is for men who want to feel powerful, present, and free — both in sex and in life.

If you’ve been chasing success but feel disconnected from your body, your pleasure, or your purpose — it’s time to come home to your masculine energy in a new way.

This is your invitation to cultivate strength that’s grounded in sensitivity, confidence that comes from self-awareness, and desire that fuels every part of your life.

Here’s what becomes possible in working with me.

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Harness Desire as Fuel

Move through old hurt, resentment, and fear into a state of self-acceptance, trust, and openness to pleasure, love and the great mystery of life.

Reclaim Your Erotic Power

Heal from shame, conditioning, and performance pressure so you can stand in your full masculine presence — relaxed, rooted, and magnetic.

Communicate with Courage & Clarity

Develop emotional literacy and embodied awareness, so you can speak honestly, listen deeply, and create real connection — in and out of the bedroom.

Transform Pressure into Presence

Move beyond anxiety, self-doubt, or the need to perform. Learn to stay grounded in your body and experience sex as connection, not performance.

Live as an Integrated Man

When you reclaim your erotic energy, you embody a wholeness that ripples into everything you touch — your work, your relationships, your world.

Your freedom
contributes to the collective freedom for ALL.

Testimonials
“Showing up more [authentically] in the world and with women…

★★★★★

During our sessions, we examined my greatest desires and fears as a man and how those fears manifest themselves in my life and affect how I show up in the world. I learned how to navigate feelings of unworthiness and self-doubt and how to show up more authentically in the world and with women.

-Justin, Los Angeles

“Strengthened the [connection] between my emotions & my physical body…

★★★★★

Through working with Mia, I was able to strengthen the connection between my emotions and my physical body. I was able to continue becoming more comfortable being completely open and vulnerable while clearing out some of the noise and being able to let more truths about myself come to the surface. Mia is welcoming, kind, grounded, knowledgeable, and grounded.

-Brad D, Marketing Strategist, Costa Rica

“[Unwavering] support & guidance…

★★★★★

I appreciate Mia’s unwavering support and guidance. I always felt that she genuinely cared about my progress. You can tell she practices the tools she shares and its evident in the way that she guided me as I explore deep and possibly painful parts of my psyche. Through our work I was able to experience what it felt like to be the person I always thought I could be.

-Justin, Los Angeles

“Transformed my [self-pleasure] routine…

★★★★★

Tantric coaching has been a positive experience. It gave me techniques I use daily, transformed my self-pleasure routine, and helped my wife and me slow down our sexual experiences. While we haven’t increased how often we connect, we now spend more time when we do, enhancing the quality of those moments.

-Anonymous

VITAL PLEASURES…

In this one-on-one coaching program, you’ll learn how to regulate your nervous system, strengthen your sexual stamina, and channel your erotic energy into vitality, creativity, and confidence.

Together we’ll uncover what keeps you disconnected from your desire or struggling in intimacy.

You’ll learn practices drawn from Tantric and Taoist wisdom, modern psychology, and somatic awareness that help you become fully present — in your body, in bed, and in life.

This is not about performance. It’s about presence.

It’s about becoming the kind of man who leads with integrity, depth, and freedom — a man who is both powerful and at peace.

Are You Ready?

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This isn’t therapy.

This isn’t a fantasy session.
This is the real, embodied work of becoming a man who feels fully alive.

And if you are ready…

Then this work is for you.

You deserve to feel fully alive — in your body, in your heart, and in your life.

VITAL PLEASURES…

If you want to…

  • Reclaim your erotic confidence

  • Strengthen emotional and sexual intimacy

  • Experience more freedom and power in your body

  • Connect deeply with your partner(s) and purpose

…then there are two ways to begin

VITAL PLEASURES…

Clarity Session

45 minutes • $111

Want a full taste of this work before committing? Book a low-cost intro session and walk away with insights and tools — whether we continue or not.

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six month program

Ready for the full 6-month experience? Let’s go deep.

I only take a few new clients a month. So, apply now to schedule your introductory call.

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I’m Mia — and I’m not here to perform, fix, or entertain you.
I’m here to hold you accountable to the man you know you could be.

I’ve studied tantra, sacred sexuality, yoga, somatic trauma healing, and the art of embodiment.

I’m a certified Sex, Love & Relationship Coach (VITA™ Method) 

But what matters most is how I hold space:
With presence. With power. With play.

I’m not a surface-level coach.

My approach is direct, compassionate, and deeply embodied. I ask the kind of questions that reveal truth beneath the noise — and I hold a space where you can explore, heal, and integrate all parts of yourself.

We’ll use breath, sound, awareness, and movement to reconnect you to your body’s wisdom. You’ll learn how to work with your sexual energy consciously — to last longer, feel more, and connect deeper.

This work is for men who are ready to face themselves with honesty, courage, and curiosity. It’s not therapy.

It’s real-time transformation.

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